What does it mean to be a real man in today's world?

No one can tell you how you have to act or set a standard for your character. Express yourself with respect and an open mind, stay true to what you believe and live your life to the fullest. I can't really answer that question in another way, as it just doesn't seem right to judge a person like that. Be yourself, however imperfect you may seem to others. All of us can achieve wonders with passion and hard work.